Guess what – she’s slept with other people. You know this. They were with her before you. And it means nothing. When you ask her or investigate her sexual past, you only reveal your own insecurities. You’re not in competition with old boyfriends. They’re gone. What happened in the bedroom with them does not exist anymore. She’s with you now. Healthy relationships only exist when the past remains in the past. In this episode:

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• - your stock with her plummets when you show your insecurities about her sexual past
  
• - become the person of her future
  
• - you stand to gain nothing
  
• - she will only question your manhood
  

Why You Should Never Ask About Her Past. The more you ask about the past, the quicker you will join it.