Lean into our relationships for AccountableLove is a podcast all about leaning in when you’re afraid. The LoveSnobs examine five reasons people tend to fear leaning into their relationships. The five ways are heartbreak, death, happiness, commitment, and Love. 

We tend to close up when we are most vulnerable when it’s time to open up more.  

Heartbreak: We are still breathing, but we feel like we are dying. Heartbreak causes us to retreat in our minds and lose track of our hearts. The pain is so intense and actual. We start to question everyone in our life, but they are the people who should be supporting us. The pain is a sign we need to lean in, not close up. The LoveSnobs will give tips and encouragement regarding how to lean into our relationships during heartbreak. 

Death:  When someone we Love passes away. Our heart leaves our chest, and we can’t comprehend the loss in our minds. Either we are in a state depressive or denial state. Communication is the last thought. Yet, it is the healthiest course of action ( no matter how many people state the opposite.) Lean into your friends, spouse, and family. 

Happiness: So many people avoid happiness because they connect it to boredom. We watch many shows where “happy people” are obnoxious. Therefore, when we feel any signs of joy. We default to drama. Our state of happiness isn’t the end. It is the beginning. Lean into your satisfaction and try the maintain it over a lifetime. 

Commitment: What is the goal in relationships? Is it to remain alone for a lifetime, jumping from one relationship to the next? or is it to find people to build a relationship. Commitment is the goal, not a prison. We have to start seeing calling people our friends and someone our spouse as the destination. Lean into our relationships! Settle down, unpack, and see your future.

Love:  Love, the famous want but fear! We are scared to say it for two reasons; fear of pushing someone away or disappointing someone. Guess what? If Love is present, they will reciprocate the faith, and you would disappoint someone you Love (not intentional) So, what’s the fear? Nothing! It is all in our heads. I Love you means we are both invested in making things work. Don’t run! Walk forward!

These five reasons are why The LoveSnobs believe most of us fear leaning in. This podcast gives some reason to lean into our relationships when you are going through heartbreak and death, experiencing happiness, working toward a commitment, and ready to honor Love. 

So Lean into the Podcast and Listen, Learn, and Apply!

By The LoveSnobs