How does a physician stay engaged after four decades in the exam room? According to Dr. Scott Abramson, the secret lies in one small word: the. Or more precisely, in removing it. Instead of asking “what’s the matter?”, what if we simply asked: what matters? In today’s episode, Dr. Peter Crane interviews Dr. Abramson, a retired neurologist who spent over 40 years at Kaiser Permanente in Northern California. But it’s not just his longevity that’s remarkable—it’s the evolution of his purpose. In the second half of his career, Scott became a passionate advocate for physician wellness and communication, ultimately capturing his insights in the moving book, Bedside Manners: For Physicians and Everyone Else. From his storytelling process (involving a tiny spiral notebook by his bed) to the powerful impact of one heartfelt question, this episode is a love letter to medicine—not as a science, but as an art of connection. Highlights include: • Why asking “What are you most afraid of?” can save more than time • What he learned from writing 20 years of monthly physician articles • Why moral injury—not just admin burden—is at the core of burnout • His personal story of fearing melanoma, and the physician who unknowingly gave him his life back • The mindset shift that helped him stay in medicine joyfully: “I get to live this life.”About the Guest Dr. Scott Abramson is a retired neurologist who spent over four decades caring for patients and mentoring colleagues at Kaiser Permanente in the San Francisco Bay Area. For the last 20 years of his career, he led physician communication and wellness efforts—helping colleagues find joy and meaning in medicine again.  His book, Bedside Manners: For Physicians and Everyone Else (https://www.amazon.com/Bedside-Manners-Physicians-everybody-else/dp/1685263798) , is a beautifully curated collection of real-life stories that reflect the emotional richness of medicine. Key Takeaways • Connection over correction. Patients aren’t just looking for answers—they’re looking to be seen. • Mindful self-gratitude is an antidote to burnout. Even routine care changes lives. • Your mindset is the medicine. The question isn’t just “what’s the matter?” but “what matters?”About the Host Dr. Peter Crane is a board-certified physician, educator, and storyteller with a heart for service and a calling to spotlight doctors who make a difference—in their communities, in medicine, and in the lives they touch. Through Doctors Making a Difference, he brings you into intimate conversations with physicians who have overcome challenges, redefined success, and found purpose in and beyond the clinic. His goal is simple: to help more doctors stay in medicine by showing them what's possible. About the Show Doctors Making a Difference is more than a podcast—it’s a movement to highlight the good, the gritty, and the deeply human side of medicine. In every episode, Dr. Peter Crane interviews physicians whose stories defy the script. From burnout recovery to bold career pivots, health challenges to quiet leadership, this show honors the truth that healing begins with connection—and doctors, too, deserve to be whole. Visit: doctorsmakingadifference.com (https://www.doctorsmakingadifference.com) The Doctors Making a Difference Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for medical, legal, or professional advice. Always consult appropriate experts regarding your unique circumstances.