In today's episode of The Divested Diary, we delved into a thought-provoking discussion about the portrayal of Black women in the modern world and media. As I shared my perspective, it became evident to me that our image is in complete shambles, and it's time for us, as Black women, to take accountability for how we are being portrayed to the masses.

Throughout the episode, I highlighted the rise of entertainers like Sukihana, Sexy Red, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, and Nicki Minaj. While their success is undeniable, I couldn't help but question the impact of their explicit and raunchy content on the perception of Black women. I specifically mentioned Nicki Minaj's "Anaconda" song, which I found to be X-rated for a teenage audience.

It is disheartening that in 2023, there is still a consensus that Black women are perceived as ghetto, loud, aggressive, and lacking intelligence. However, I challenged the notion that this perception is solely the result of external forces, such as racism. Instead, I argued that it is time for us to divest from the idea that there is a boogeyman in a white cloth perpetuating these stereotypes.

As an educated Black woman, I believe we should pride ourselves on our ability to analyze situations and develop conclusive insights. Therefore, it is perplexing to me that many educated Black women continue to perpetuate negative stereotypes through their online presence. I emphasized that it is not racism that we are experiencing in 2023 but rather a consequence of the behaviors exhibited during movements like Black Lives Matter.

I urged Black women to consider the consequences of their actions and their impact on our image. While it is essential to demand respect regardless of race, continuously screaming at white people and expressing anger and hate towards them will only breed resentment. I emphasized the need for a shift in our narrative, where we showcase our intelligence, homemaking skills, and contributions to society rather than focusing solely on our grievances and twerking.

To illustrate my point, I shared an example of a TikTok video I came across where a Black woman threatened to beat her nine-year-old daughter with a belt for messing up her hair. I expressed disappointment in the comment section, where many Black women were laughing and encouraging such behavior. I emphasized that our actions matter and contribute to the negative perception of Black women.

I call for Black women to take responsibility and accountability for our image. I emphasized the importance of change and urged us to become the role models we want our daughters, nieces, and future generations to look up to. It is time to divest from negative stereotypes and embrace a classier and more empowering image.

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