How to Be an Adult

How to Be an Adult


Latest Episodes

How to Stop People-Pleasing (Ep. 21)
December 17, 2024

This episode is for all the recovering people-pleasers out there. If you feel like its hard to say no in an unfair situation, Im going to give you a moral framework that lets you to speak your mind and simultaneously feel like the hero in the story of

How to Consume the News Without Falling Apart (Ep. 20)
November 01, 2024

Weve recently heard of a trend of young people avoiding the news entirely to preserve their mental health. In our view, this is unnecessarily self-defeating, because its possible to be informed and happy at the same time. In this episode, we share how:

How to Stop Being a Perfectionist (Ep. 19)
September 17, 2024

In one of our most focused episodes to date, Luke deconstructs the notion of perfection and suggests achiveable standards, such as authentic self-expression, that are still worth striving toward: Perfection is an unrealistic and unattainable standard that

Why the Glass Is Half Full (Ep. 18 of How to Be an Adult)
August 20, 2024

In the eternal debate about whether the proverbial glass is half full or half empty, both arguments are often presented as equally valid. In this solo episode with Luke, he makes a case for why the glass being half full is the correct answer: A glass half

More About Addiction, with Marc Lewis (Ep. 17, pt. 2 of 2)
July 30, 2024

This episode of How to Be an Adult, the second of two parts, features a very special guest: Marc Lewis, Ph.D., psychologist, academic and bestselling author of Memoirs of an Addicted Brain and The Biology of Desire. Marc joins Luke in our studio to discus

About Addiction, with Marc Lewis (Ep. 16, pt. 1 of 2)
July 16, 2024

This episode of How to Be an Adult, the first of two parts, features a very special guest: Marc Lewis, Ph.D., psychologist, academic and bestselling author of Memoirs of an Addicted Brain and The Biology of Desire. Marc joins Luke in our studio to discuss

How to Cope with a Breakup (Ep. 15)
June 10, 2024

Not every relationship lasts forever, and its when a relationship ends that all your self-loving and self-caring will really matter. In this episode, Luke and Pascal draw from their own personal heartbreaks to discuss some ways to cope with a breakup: Ex

How to Love Yourself, Too (Ep. 14)
April 23, 2024

When you keep hearing that you need to love yourself, and nobody gives you instructions in how, its easy to feel stuck (and not any more loved). But self-loving people are not a different breed of human being: theyve just internalized certain lessons ea

How to Live Well After Trauma (Ep. 13)
March 15, 2024

If youve had an experience that overwhelmed your ability to cope, or when youve been in an environment where you were regularly unable to cope, youve experienced psychological trauma. In this episode, we share seven principles for living well with our

Truth, Morality and Beauty: Not Just for Victorians (Ep. 12)
February 20, 2024

In this episode, we advocate for capital-letter Truth, Morality and Beauty in our purportedly post-modern world, and we argue that these ideals are not quaintly outdated, but necessary for society to function and for you (as an adult) to be at your happie