Most of us don’t aim too high and miss our goals. Most of us aim too low and achieve them. We don’t want to think about what could be possible because the next thought is, “Well I don’t know how I would do that.” So we settle, and that’s how we get stuck. Defining success means you have to let yourself dream big and identify what you want your ideal life to look like, then start making choices based on that. What you think about, you create; and if you are thinking about a definition of success, you’re more likely to take steps to create it rather than just react out of instinct.