Author Kare Anderson teaches us to identify the kinds of people with whom we can leverage the most value and opportunity for them and ourselves. She talks about a “click moment”or "aha moment" with some people, and if it keeps on clicking, there’s trust, competence, and a sense of mutuality that builds. And if you give enough for other people what they need, you sometimes get what you need, even before you need it, from people you didn’t know could provide it.