Steve Rodgers says getting your personal dreams mapped out on paper is important, as is talking with your partner/spouse about them. Equally important is to keep accountable to your plan by tracking your progress on a weekly and monthly basis and course correcting along the way. Anything worth playing is worth planning by having a game plan with some actionable steps instead of just winging it and hoping for the best. There is a price you pay for everything, and you have to determine are you willing to pay the cost or not. If you’re not, then don’t do it. If you are, then figure out how to get there and imagine the joys and benefits on the other side of making it happen.