Welcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying at Somatica Institute with me, and she has also just started her practice at Intimacy Illumination as a somatic sex and relationship coach. 

Alisa shares all about her kink journey, beginning with what it’s like to be a single female sub navigating this world on your own, all the way through to exploring impact play, rope suspension, fire play and electro play! We also talk about embodiment, somatic and the crossover between somatic therapies and kink. If you’d like to get in touch with Alisa, you can do so at @intimacy_illumination on Instagram, or by clicking the links below. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Intimacy Illumination (Instagram)
• Lotus Blooms sex shop in DC Alexandra Virginia
• The Crucible Dungeon in DC 
• Black Rose (kink educational group)
• The Kink Consultant Instagram 
• Agreeable Agony  (impact toys)
• Violet wand (electro play)
• The Body Keeps the Score (book)
• Come As You Are (book)
• Polysecure (book)
• The Bone Season - Shannon Smith (book)

Contact

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