Unshakable Hope Podcast

Unshakable Hope Podcast


Finding Acceptance in a Culture of Comparison: Heather Holleman

September 09, 2025

Do you ever feel like you’re fighting for a seat at the table—striving for approval or battling comparison? Dr. Heather Holleman shares how one verb from Scripture transformed her perspective and set her free from jealousy, insecurity, and shame. Drawing from her book Seated with Christ: Living Freely in a Culture of Comparison, Heather shows us the freedom of knowing we already belong. Through her own stories of struggle and hope, she paints a picture of true acceptance and purpose. If you’ve ever wrestled with comparison or questioned your worth, this episode will remind you of a beautiful truth: you already have a seat at the table with Jesus.


Ephesians 1:20; Psalm 34:5; Philippians 4:19; 1 Timothy 6:17

Website: www.HeatherHolleman.com

Book: Seated with Christ: Living Freely in a Culture of Comparison

Connect with Kelly: https://www.KellyHall.org


03:33 Heather's Journey of Jealousy and Comparison

04:16 The Transformative Power of Ephesians 2:6

08:26 The Round Table Analogy

14:05 The Planetarium Lesson

20:34 Personal Insecurities and Compliments

22:56 Struggles and Realizations in Ministry

23:47 Finding Joy Beyond Wealth

25:24 Social Connections and Happiness

26:16 Dealing with Comparisons and Grief

29:30 4 Most Important Questions

31:03 Overcoming Fear and Trusting God