The Rising Leader

The Rising Leader


Steve Schlafman on Authentic Leadership and Personal Transformation

February 19, 2025

I'm thrilled to bring you this inspiring conversation with Steve Schlafman, a former venture capitalist who has undergone a powerful transformation in his life and work. We dive into our complex relationship with success and how to thrive amidst the constant changes in today's world. Steve's journey from the high-paced world of venture capital to founding Downshift, a coaching firm that supports ambitious professionals through transition and transformation, provides a fascinating lens on redefining success and maintaining ambition without burnout.


Steve Schlafman comes to us with an impressive background, having held roles at top firms in New York, such as Primary Venture Partners and RRE Ventures, as well as operating positions at Microsoft, the New England Patriots, and various startups. Despite this success, Steve felt disconnected and burnt out, prompting a period of self-discovery that ultimately led to the founding of Downshift. Through his work, Steve now helps executives and creators refine their inner compass in an intentional and deeply energizing way.


"It's not about slowing down to a standstill; it's learning to change gears so you can accelerate."

~ Steve Schlafman


Today on The Rising Leader:


·     The realization of a need for change often starts as a whisper and grows into a secret that needs to be honored.

·     Professionals feel off despite their success, and there's a longing for authenticity and fulfillment.

·     It’s possible to remain ambitious while developing a healthy relationship with your career and personal life.

·     Slowing down isn’t about inactivity but about being deliberate to gain momentum and deeper fulfillment.

·     Acknowledging and addressing resistance can aid significant personal and professional growth.

·     A well-balanced life outside work contributes to better performance and satisfaction within work.

·     Embrace the unknown and mystery rather than viewing every problem as needing an immediate fix.

·     We are deeply interconnected with our environment; recognizing this can bring more awareness and adaptability.


Guest Contact Info:

·      Schlaf.co

·      @schlaf

·      Downshift.me


Resources:

·      Blog: Where the Road Bends


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