Do you have a fear that you need to address in your sexual life?  Is there something that you haven’t said to a lover or partner and waiting for the right time to bring it up, but that time never comes?  Whether you realize it or not, you might be holding back something that you want to say to your lover because you want to spare their feelings or maybe you’ve given up on an aspect of your sex life that you’ve decided to put on the backburner because your needs weren’t getting met.