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3 Mistakes Women Make that Sabotage their Relationships

April 28, 2015

3 Mistakes Women Make that Sabotage their Relationship
3 Mistakes Women Make that Sabotage their Relationship

I’m excited about today’s show today because I am interviewing Stacey Murphy, Queen Bee of Blissful Lotus Loving School of the Arts and Queen Bee Charm School.  I met her a few months ago at a couple’s seminar and I was just hooked on all the teachings she had to offer.
Most recently, Stacey wrote an eBook on the 3 mistakes women make that sabotage their relationships.  It’s crazy to think that we as women have tendencies that we don’t even think exist.
The most interesting, in my opinion, only because I can relate is the good girl syndrome. The ideal that we have to act a certain way because society asked us to be that way.  Women want to be respected and are worried what their friends, family, and significant other might think of them and their actions.  They aren’t allowed to be sexy vixens because that’s what society says.  Well, snap out of it!  It is sabotaging your relationship because your insecurities have taken hold.  Don’t undervalue yourself.  Embrace the power that is you.
Stacey talks about how a woman with high value has confidence and it shows.  She also talks about how she teaches students a confidence code.  Taking a compliment is as easy as just saying, “Thank you”.  When you break yourself down after a compliment, for example, your friend says you look great in a dress and you reply, “I need to lose weight”.  You take away the moment from your friend and you’re just a negative Nancy.  That behavior translates into relationships as well.  No man wants to be around a woman if she’s always negative.  This is a prime reason how women might sabotage a great thing.
Finally, women need to understand how men think.  Not act like a man.  Be proud of your femininity.  Stacey talks about men’s inner truth.  She has 21 of them!  But only teases us with one, that men are not clairvoyant.  Yep, men aren’t mind readers.  Don’t assume he knows something because he knows you.  I’m a little disappointed with all of this because the Queen Bee only shared one inner truth and she has 20 more!!
If you’re interested in more about her eBook on Mistakes Women Make that Sabotage their relationships, go to the following link:
https://theblissfullotus.com/3mistakeswomenmakethatsabotagetheirrelationships
Download the book today!  There are only a limited amount of downloads, so don’t wait.
Also, Stacey will be having a teleseminar on May 6th that will feature even more information and more inner truths!  Download the book, visit her website, and sign up for the teleseminar!