Episode 55 – Shh.. Ah, the mythical unicorn.. In the Swinging Lifestyle the unicorn is a single female who participates with couples and other singles.  They are the object of many couples desires as they can help fulfill that often sought after fantasy of the fmf threesome.  But, in this episode Danielle and I have a unicorn in the studio to discuss the lifestyle from her perspective.  
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First topic – Inside the Unicorn

How did you get into the lifestyle

How long
How did the lifestyle differ from what you first thought it might be like?

Do you get more invitations than you would want?  Is there a backlog?

Many couples think that unicorns are not interested because they get enough “action”
What is a couples best chance at getting to meet up with a unicorn?

How is being a unicorn different than being in the LS as a couple?

Are there negatives to being a unicorn?
Positives?

Me Undies
Second Topic – From the couple’s perpective

Expectations

When you go on a date with a couple, what are your expectations?
Do you go into the date thinking that the couple is planning sex?

Dinner

Who pays for dinner and drinks?
What is the best seating order?
Is it better in a secluded area or does it matter?

Male centric

Do you find yourself flirting with the male, female, neither?
Do you feel awkward since the wife is there?
Who should go the next step?

SDC
Third Topic – Being a unicorn

What would you want others to know about being a unicorn?

Other single women
Couple

Are unicorns just looking for a husband?

Give an example
How do you keep the expectations straight?

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Final comments

Tony – “The Dark Ages of Swinging“
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