In this episode... Sometimes your spouse becomes the Moby Dick of your story - the source and reason for all your problems, frustrations and irritations. The trouble is- it’s usually not really about them at all - it’s about you. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but stick with us today. Conversation Starters… The version of your spouse that lives in your head is not real. The problem is usually NOT your marriage, or your spouse, it's you. Stop projecting, start reflecting. Talk About It... Each week we challenge you to set a time with your spouse to have a conversation that matters. Here’s your conversation starter question: What have you been projecting at your spouse? Continue the Conversation In our Legendary Marriage Community on Facebook Learn More... Every couple wants to have a great marriage, but most couples wind up in the Roommate Zone. We help couples break out of the Roommate Zone, so they can build a life, a love and a legacy together. Find out more at: LegendaryMarriage.com Facebook Instagram Next Steps... Subscribe to the Legendary Marriage Podcast Leave a review on Apple Podcasts Join the Roommates to Soulmates Challenge Resources... 7 Secrets of Legendary Marriages FREE Report Daily Check In Tool Episode Brought to you by... Don’t forget to sign up for the FREE Roommates to Soulmates 5 Day Marriage Challenge at soulmateschallenge.com. It’s fun, transformational, and you’ll find a tribe of people just like you, who are deeply committed to building a legendary marriage. Tags: #couplegoals #marriageissues #MarriageCounseling #CouplesTherapy #Love #MarriageTips #Relationships #passion #parenting