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Strict Dominance

Even though there are gray areas between strict and sensual dominance, I think it’s a lot easier to quantify strict dominance.  CBT, impact play, predicament bondage – all the tools of the strict Femdom.  Having you get naked for me and crawl around on the floor on your belly while I tell you how pathetic you are?  Strict Femdom.

It’s Coerced Control

When I wrote about sensual dominance, I said it was about taking control of you – or, more specifically, your cock.  With someone who wants to be sensually dominated, my experience is that you want to be controlled, you want me to guide you and tell you what to do.  With strict dominance, that control is coerced.  Oh, I think you still want to give it up, you just want there to be a struggle for it.  You want to make believe when I sit on your face you don’t want to lick my pussy – until I start to whip your cock and balls (Of course, we know that’s not true, don’t we?  Of course you want to eat me out!)

Pushing Limits

A strict domination session is also good for exploring limits.  I had a sub once who was leery about taking a caning.  I secured him to my spanking bench, and told him in no uncertain terms he was going to get the cane that night – and he was going to beg for it!  I began to flog and crop him, every once in a while, reaching down, and stroking his cock, until he was worked up into a frenzy and begging to cum.  I just told him that wasn’t what he needed to beg for.  After some more teasing and edging, he was begging for the cane – and I wasn’t going to deny him!  He got the cane – and a mind-blowing orgasm as well!  Now he’s a pain slut…go figure…

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