Steps To Your Better You
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Resist The Urge To Pile On (STYBY 372)
If a person faces deserved group criticism, the urge to join the fray in the verbal beatdown is high. Resist this urge, as it does help in teaching a lesson already learned. It just brings extra ugly
Work To Give More Compliments (Even To Your Enemies) (STYBY 371)
Some people have trouble thinking of themselves as valuable unless told by someone else. Some people believe their value is better portrayed by tearing other people down. You can help them out in both
“When We Get To Where We’re Going...Perhaps We Should Stop.” (STYBY 370)
This weeks message was inspired by a rennet post on Seth Godins blog that made me evaluate what motivates me in my pursuits. Is it reaching the stated goal or just the journey to get there?
Ask Yourself: How Can I Prevent Getting Stuck In The Same Trap In The Future? (STYBY 369)
The best time to question the consequence of your actions is after you have survived an ordeal. The second-best time to question the consequences of your actions is the moment you begin to see the con
Cultivate Compassion For Those 'Less Intelligent' Than You (STYBY 368)
Learn to endure 'stupid questions' as questions asked by people who truly don't know the answer. Learn to endure the people who tend to claim, 'I'm just trying to ask a question,' as people determined
Take Just One Tiny Steps Forward To Put Your Plan Into Action (STYBY 367)
Want to feel empowered and better about yourself and your life? Face your fears and work toward that goal alluding to you. Just take it one tiny step at a time.
Look For The Bad In People (STYBY 366)
You dont want to look for ways to exploit those around you. Youre looking for a way to better understand people by getting to know the side they (usually) do their best not to show you.
Do Regular Brain Dumps (STYBY 365)
Sit down with a physical pen and a piece of paper. Use your phone app if you must. Freely brainstorm for at least 5 minutes (longer if you are feeling it), and out which ideas have been bogging you do
Have A Sense Of Perspective When Evaluating Your Failures (STYBY 364)
You must have a good sense of perspective when going through a rough stretch of failures and coming up short. A rejection is not necessarily the signal of the end of a journey, and it may be a detour
Be Aware Of What 'Checklists' Becomes Subconscious (STYBY 363)
If you repeat a process enough, you forget it is a process, and it becomes a habit you automatically do without fail. This is true for positive and negative processes, so be vigilant of what patterns