In this conversation, Emily Nagoski joins me as we discuss the creation of her new book on long-term relationships and lasting connections. - We explore the concept of normal sex and the importance of

In this episode we discuss common mistakes that married couples make when it comes to initiating sex. - There are dynamics of higher desire and lower desire and patterns that make these mistakes so e

On the Regular Version ... - In this conversation, and old blogging friend, Joshua Becker, joins me to discuss the journey and benefits of minimalism. - We talk about his personal experience with mini

In this episode, we discuss the importance of date nights in marriage and offer a unique tip to make them more enjoyable. - It's the idea of having sex before going out on a date to possibly relieve t

In this conversation, Dr. Marty Klein joins me and discusses the importance of reframing the conversation around sex and challenging our ideas about sexuality. - We emphasize that sex is not just a be

This week let's talk about jealousy. Shanenn Bryant joins me for a conversation about overcoming jealousy in relationships. - Shanenn shares her personal journey with jealousy and how she discovered t

In this episode, we dive into how marriage is simple but difficult, and emphasize the importance of honest conversations. - Then we move into the main focus of the episode -- an email from a husband w

In this conversation, Tripp Lanier joins me as we discuss the importance of self-reflection, understanding self, and overcoming resistance. - We explore the impact of scripts, narratives, and parts in

In this conversation, I'm joined by Stacey Sherrell and Rachel Faccio from Decoding Couples. - We have a great conversation about the transition from normal married life to intimacy, the importance of

In this episode, in recognition of this being episode 666, we go a bit dark and discuss the concept of normal marital sadism (a term coined by Dr David Schnarch), which refers to the intentional infli