Sara Grillo

Sara Grillo


You will  never get a single referral from a CPA by acting pathetic!

February 12, 2024

There’s nothing I hate worse than when I see a financial advisor chase around a CPA or estate attorney, only to get taken, referring their clients to them with zero reciprocity. Kirk Chisholm is the principal of Innovative Advisory Group and he’s here to talk with us about how to be successful getting referrals from CPAs and other centers of influence.



For those of you who are new to my blog, my name is Sara. I am a CFA® charterholder and financial advisor marketing consultant. I have a newsletter in which I talk about financial advisor lead generation topics which is best described as “fun and irreverent.” 



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It’s pathetic

It is painful seeing the desperate things advisors do trying to get CPAs to send them business



  • Taking them to coffee

  • Taking them to lunch

  • Offering them referrals

  • Offering to share fees

Seeing this drives me NUTS.



Kirk says he did this for about 17 years and to no avail, then he wised up.





Things got better once he learned a few things.



Lack of differentiation



Look at the CPA’s life. They get 5-10 solicitations a week from financial advisors who all sound the same. Although you think you are unique, the CPA can’t really tell the difference between you and someone else. You really have to present yourself as completely different if you want a CPA to give you a referral.



Treat them like a hero



Kirk says you have to treat the CPA like a hero and guide them along their journey and make their life better. Financial plans and financial products won’t cut it. It has to be about THEM not about YOU.



The CPA’s life is a complete disaster.



  • They have 600 to 1000 clients (sometimes more); this is the workload for one CPA. You are trying to jam all of the work for those clients into a 2-3 month window.

  • They have to retain staff all year when they only have three months of work.

  • They are a commodity. 

  • They get paid squat.

  • Clients don’t appreciate them. People only do their taxes because they don’t want to go to jail. You’d be hard pressed to name somebody who is wildly enthralled with their CPA. They don’t have sticky, local clients.

Think about if you could switch that around. What if you could teach them how to get paid two to ten times as much? What if you could help them get rid of half their clients, but get paid more? Kirk says that often the CPA’s client needs more, but the CPA doesn’t lead the conversation the right way to get them to open up to it. If you want to get a referral from a CPA you have to lead the discussion in a way that allows you to gain understanding, have empathy, and be a teammate to them in this uphill battle they are fighting.



The right question to focus on



Kirk says that financial advisors and CPAs make the mistake of assuming that the client cares about their core work as a provider (financial performance, better plans, tax returns). In reality, Kirk says, what they really care about is the question of whether or not you are going to make their lives better and all of the issues surrounding the core work that you do.



Example: “My kid is going off to college and I am really struggling with that.”



Kirk says the big question to teach CPAs to ask their clients is: “How can I make your life better?” It’s about empathy. People want to be understood, and they want to be led. There are no leaders in our society anywhere. We’re drowning in data, information, and junk.



Repeat after me: CPA’s don’t want to share fees with you!



Kirk says it is futile to try to share fees with a CPA, although many advisors keep trying. He says that he has proposed this to numerous CPAs he works with and they have all refused because it is too much work to go get a Series 65 license. This will fall on deaf ears unless you really work closely with the CPA.



If a CPA is going to give you a referral, let it be that. Let it be that they trust you with their clients because you have shown to them that you are a person who is worthy of that alone. They shouldn’t have to be enticed to do so by the allure of fees, and even to suggest so is insulting to many of them.



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-Sara G



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