Listen:

Watch:

Read:
I went for a trip down memory lane last week, browsing the spreadsheet that lists all the episodes we’ve ever published and I decided to replay a few for you. After all, our subject matter is timeless. This three-part series will include your favourite episode (that is, the most downloaded episode), and my favourite, but we’re starting today with the very first episode, which explains why mindfulness practice is an effective way to manage stress.
I thought I should kick off this podcast by explaining just why mindfulness is the best stress management tool around.
I’ve been an instructor at a postsecondary institution for 18 years. I took the job, because I love to teach. Teaching is my passion and I’m good at it. What I don’t love is the stress that comes from working in a big, bureaucratic organization where individual people and their accomplishments are not considered important, where decisions are made without consulting those who are affected by them, and where managers are more interested in controlling employees than in supporting their efforts to produce quality work. It got so bad for me about 10 years ago I couldn’t get through a workday without thinking “this is day I quit.” I was exhausted and bitchy all the time. I would walk through the doors to the office saying to myself “I hate this place.” Not a good state of mind, but I didn’t quit, because I just didn’t want to give up on my passion.
So, I began reading self-help books. Stress management, happiness, influencing other people, self-confidence… you name it, I read it, and none of it helped. Yes, those books gave me some insights into my behaviour and mental state, but they didn’t help me de-stress in any lasting way.
Then, entirely by accident, I came across an article about meditation. At first, I meditated sporadically and I jumped around a lot trying different types of meditation, searching for the best one. I felt frustrated that I couldn’t focus my mind, but I think I stuck with it because, at least for the duration of the meditation, I felt less anxious and stressed. 
The real payoff, however, came to me after I’d been meditating regularly for a couple of months -- and I discovered it by accident, too. I was heading down the hallway at the office, on my way to the bathroom. Coming the other way was my supervisor. She marched right up to me and started shouting. Loudly, in front of students and staff, she berated me for something that absolutely was not my fault. Normally, this kind of situation would’ve made me instantly angry and anxious. I’d have had to exert a lot of control not to yell back and, worst of all, I’d have stewed about the incident for days afterward even if the supervisor admitted she was wrong.
But, that’s not what happened. Instead, I was utterly, completely calm. I stood and listened to my supervisor and when she was finished venting, I calmly explained to her that she was wrong. The situation resolved quickly and best of all, when it was over I just went on my way. I had absolutely no need to revisit it in my head over and over again.
And then I realized what had happened. My ability to stay calm and not automatically react in a negative way was a direct result of my meditation practice. Finally, I had a solid method for managing stress. Ten years later, I’m still teaching at the same institute and I’m still practicing meditation. It’s such powerful stress management strategy, I will never give it up. 
So, how does mindfulness help to manage stress?
To be mindful is to be aware of what is happening right now, in this very moment, without judging it.
Typically, we react automatically to things that happen to us. Our human brain has evolved to make judgements quickly and easily,