Wouldn’t it be nice to know that each person in your world has a keen understanding of you and chooses to respond with appropriateness. Regretfully, though, you probably know someone who seems oblivious to your feelings and needs, no matter how strongly you attempt to coordinate. With such people you will need to exercise caution as you respond, lest you fall into very unhealthy patterns. Something to Think about:  Each behavior has meaning, but amazingly there are some individuals who have no clue about the meaning of their most common behaviors. When you attempt to correct those who cannot understand you, you run the risk of becoming emotionally imbalanced. With unaware people, you will need to adjust your expectations to match ugly reality. Let’s Talk Question: What experiences have you had that point to the fact that someone truly has no capacity to know or understand you? How do you react emotionally in those moments?