This week Jay and Abiola discuss a letter from a woman who is growing more and more concerned with her boyfriend's lack of money. Hindering possible trips and so forth, she wonders if its works sticking around or is it time to move on.

The Letter from this week:

"Hey you

I have been dating this man for 3 years. I understand a relationship is not all about money but plays an important part. We both have grown children and have our everyday bills.

He just seems to never have any extra for us to do much of anything. We talk about vacations but they never come through. He often talks about adjusting and adjusting. As stated my children are grown and I am at a point in my life where I should be able to enjoy it.

Should I move on and wait on my Mr Right or give him a chance to get himself together."

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