This week Jay and Abiola discuss a letter from a man who is trying to be intimate with his wife, but has a question about what to do when visitors stop by. Love, Sex, and intimacy will all be discussed.

The Letter from this week:

"I have been reading a few of your columns, and I can say that I can appreciate the advice that you are giving to help individuals and couples reach the intimacy level that they are seeking in the way God designed it to be.

I do have a question about your 40 days and 40 nights suggestion. What do you suggest for the time frame for sex while the woman in menstruating? I am male, and have always been one not to have any kind of intercourse during the menstruation period. I would like to try this suggestion, but need help when 'Aunt Flo' comes to visit as suggestions for sex."