How should we approach success? 

This week, Joey and Jess talk about whales, personal comparison, persistence hunting, gender dynamics, emotional labor, and lunch prep. They don’t talk about fairyfly hearts. 

references 

• Foxy Brown's "Candy" 
• Corrections Department: A blue whale's heart isn't actually the size of a Volkswagen Beetle. 
• Kajornwan Chueng's twitter thread about her kid "doing the bare minimum." 
• Emotional labor 
• The New York Times: ‘Fleishman Is in Trouble’ and the Angst of the Striving Upper Class 
• Boston.com: Matt Damon, Ben Affleck reveal they shared a bank account in their teens and 20s to fund their showbiz dreams