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15 Signs You’re Healing from Betrayal Trauma – 5.08S
***Disclaimer: You may have signs of healing that are not on this list. This list is not definitive; its just what we have seen in our work with betrayed partners of porn addicts / sex addicts.*** -
Does He Really Not Know? (‘I have to ask the right questions) – 5.07S
Sometimes addicts answer with I dont know to questions like, when did it start? how often? and did you ever see ___? And his not knowing can leave the betrayed partner feeling very skeptical
What Should Recovering Addicts Watch Out For? (10 Hidden Pitfalls) – 5.06S
Join us as we tackle what recovering addicts need to watch out for on the journey to sobriety. Well give practical tips for those in recovery such as avoiding triggers, the why behind choosing sobr
Friends say I should leave–What should I do? (3 Things to Try) – 5.05S
What should you do if the addict keeps relapsing/betraying youespecially if your friends keep telling you to leave? Should you divorce? Should you stay? Can life get any better if he keeps relapsi
He Lies about Me to His Counselor (“my apology should be enough!”) – 5.04S
In our work, we have seen some husbands who have lied about their wives to the helping communitylying to pastors, counselors, family and friendsabout her. Or the husband will diagnose her with a me
What To Watch Out for as I Heal? (husband, nurse her back to health) – 5.03S
There are many things I wish I had known right after D-Day things that would have helped me recover more quickly. In this video, I cover several of them, and Jay gives extra input from the addict-who
When Marriage Counselors Divorce (Season 5 intro) – 5.00
In this video, we discuss a difficult topic, so if youre not up for that right now, feel free to come back later. But its happened often enough over the last several years we thought we would cover
How to Rebuild Trust When He Feels Attacked (“this is stupid”) – 4.25S
What caused Jay to take all of this more seriously (even if he felt attacked)? And what would cause Matt to say, This is stupid! We cover both of those here, in this LAST EPISODE OF THE SEASON.
One Thing Some Guys Resent (ways to build trust instead) – 4.24S
Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the proc
One Thing Many Guys Hide (honesty isn’t enough) – 4.23S
Rebuilding trust takes more than honest answers to the questions you are asked. You have to share what is going on for you without being prompted. This is huge in rebuilding trust after betrayal. TIME