Charred Hearts

Charred Hearts


Episode 3 – Fetishes & New Sex Partner Etiquette

October 25, 2014

Saturday, October 25, 2014   |   Charred Hearts Episode #3   |   Hosts:  Kali (NerdiChar) & Adam (RandomGeek)
Special Guests:  none
INTRODUCTION
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Kali:  Welcome back to Charred Hearts! It is Saturday, October 25, 2014 at 10:00pm Eastern Time and this is episode 3. For those of you counting, it is officially 13 days until BlizzCon 2014!
We are your weekly podcast all about nerd love and everything that goes along with that. Well, weekly unless one of us takes a week off for a birthday party, haha. Think of us as your very own “Loveline for nerds.” That means for the show to be successful, we absolutely need listener input! No subject or question is off limits, and you can be as vulgar as you want. Just remember our disclaimer – this podcast and any advice given is for entertainment purposes only. We are not medical doctors!
I am your host Kali, a.k.a. NerdiChar. We have some exciting news for the show – we are now a part of d20crit! If you have not already checked out d20crit.com, I suggest you do that ASAP. d20crit is a network all about “embracing the geek,” and is home to other great podcasts on a variety of topics. Adam’s and my hope is to make Charred Hearts a really awesome and popular podcast, and we felt that joining up with d20crit was the right move to achieve that. Speaking of Adam, how are you this evening good sir?
Adam:  [response – introduction, what have you been up to, thoughts about joining d20crit, excitement for BlizzCon, etc]
Kali:  Just a reminder that later in the show we will open up the live chat feature on charredhearts.com to answer your questions related to the show topic. I know all of you listeners are eager to get into the show topic, since this is our first episode all about sex…but for right now, it’s time for some foreplay.
FOREPLAY
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Kali:  This week’s story comes from aplus.com, titled “Apparently, The ‘G-Spot’ And Vaginal Orgasms Don’t Exist After All”
Adam:  [give your take on the article, start the discussion]
potential discussion points:

experiences with this
what does this mean for the porn industry?
men have to work a little harder, haha
anatomy lesson – as an embryo, hormones are released that begin the differentiation

Kali:  [more responses to Adam’s feedback, go into a back and forth discussion]
Kali:  Make sure to check out the link to this article in the show notes.
Link to the article:  http://aplus.com/a/apparently-the-g-spot-is-a-myth
MAIN TOPIC & LISTENER CALLS/CHATS/QUESTIONS
Kali:  We’re moving on to our main topic, so I am opening live chat on charredhearts.com. We received some great questions from a listener regarding sexual fetishes and the etiquette of asking a newer sex partner to participate in those fetishes with you.
Topics: (go through these 1 at a time with back and forth for each one?) Yes

At what point in a relationship should you tell someone your likes, fetishes, etc.?
Based on the first question, when is it okay to ask the “new” sexual partner to participate in those fetishes?
Nerd-related fetishes – furries, MLP, cosplay (Princess Leia in the gold bikini, etc), feet (apparently it is the most popular fetish), camming/sexting/cybering, anime/video game characters, controller bondage
How to ask – don’t be pushy!
If you are asked and aren’t comfortable – don’t be rude, explain why you aren’t comfortable but also be open-minded. You may end up liking it!

Adam:  [response]
Kali:  Well, that about does it for Adam and I. Thanks for listening to episode 3 of Charred Hearts, and a very special thank you to those that joined us in the chat room! Let us know how we did, and what topics or segments you would like to hear about in future episodes.
WRAP UP (PRE-RECORDED)
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