Charred Hearts

Charred Hearts


Episode 1 – Dating Apps

October 04, 2014

Saturday, October 4, 2014   |   Charred Hearts Episode #1   |   Hosts:  Kali (NerdiChar) & Adam (RandomGeek)   |   Special Guests:  none
INTRODUCTION
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Kali:  Welcome to the first episode of Charred Hearts! It is Saturday, October 4, 2014 at 10:00pm Eastern Time.
We are your weekly podcast all about nerd love and everything that goes along with that. Think of us as your very own “Loveline for nerds.” That means for the show to be successful, we absolutely need listener input! We want your deepest, darkest questions, comments, and topic ideas – no subject is taboo!
I am Kali, a.k.a. NerdiChar. You may know me from HotScast where I co-host a podcast all about Heroes of the Storm. I am a Psychology PhD candidate, gamer, and avid nerd. I have been married, divorced, and everything in between. My goal for this podcast is to create an environment where you can ask your burning questions about anything and everything, then provide you some helpful answers based on my experiences and knowledge. Just remember our disclaimer – this podcast and any advice given is for entertainment purposes only. We are not medical doctors!
Well enough about me! Let me introduce you to my handsome co-host, the one, the only…Adam, a.k.a. RandomGeek!
Adam:  I am a host of another Heroes of the Storm Podcast, The Nexus, Co-Host and Brewmaster for Monk Meditation and I have a few other things in the works that will hopefully be out by the end of the year. I am married with a 17 month old daughter but have gone from the high school geek who couldn’t talk to girls without stammering and stuttering to an adult who is confident and comfortable in social situations. I have been in all sorts of different relationships from long distance, online, long term relationships and quick pme daters. Also running the gambit of meeting women in person, at weddings, from friends and families as well as online dating. So I have a large experience of life lessons when it comes to dealing with the fairer sex.
Kali:  The moral of the story here, folks, is that playing Heroes of the Storm makes you a love guru! I am just kidding. Thank you for introducing yourself to our listeners, Adam! Later in the show we will open up the live chat feature on charredhearts.com to answer your questions related to the show topic. But now, it’s time for some foreplay.
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FOREPLAY
Kali:  Okay guys, so this part of the show is dedicated to sexy, gamer, or nerd news from around the globe. If you come across any funny, zany, or sexy stories, send them to us and we will discuss them on air! This week’s story comes from theguardian.com, titled “How Tinder took me from serial monogamy to casual sex.”
Adam:  This article is about Sally, a London woman who found the world of casual hook-ups through apps like Tinder “intoxicating.” [give your take on the article, start the discussion]
potential discussion points:

in the world of “less serious” dating apps, Tinder offers the option of retaining some anonymity
superficial, based purely on physical attraction
you tend to see the same people across all the apps
can go on a date with a different person every night
sex can just be fun/casual/non-committal
raise self-esteem, especially for introverts and nerdy/geeky types
how do you stay safe?
taught article author the value of a true connection and made her more open-minded

Kali:  So this has been me. There is something seriously addictive about all that attention. I can totally understand where Sally is coming from. [more responses to Adam’s feedback, go into a back and forth discussion]
Kali:  Make sure to check out the link to this article in the show notes.
Link to the article:  http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/sep/28/tinder-serial-monogamy-casual-sex
MAIN TOPIC & LISTENER CALLS/CHATS/QUESTIONS
Kali:  As you may have guessed from the featured article, the main topic in this episode is internet dating phon