Monogamy is something most couples never really discuss. It is generally assumed when we enter a relationship, it will be monogamous, and that is that. After all, monogamy is the only way to show true emotional commitment to someone… right? Well I strongly disagree.

Monogamy - when agreed to for the right reasons - can be perfectly healthy. Though this is often not the case. I have frequently seen monogamy being used to justify possessive and controlling behaviour, disguising jealousy as passion, and promoting shame and secrecy in relationships.

I may have some pretty controversial views on this topic, but I encourage you to hear me out. I’m sure you’ll enjoy the ride, and hey, you might even agree with me? Join me in this week’s episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, for an extra passionate chat about some of the things I value most in relationships. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23
• The Course of Love (book) - by Alain de Botton

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