Description:
It is quite common for others to presume they can or should define who you are supposed to be and how you ought to feel and prioritize. In those cases, that represents a violation of relationship boundaries. Rather that collapsing in despair or trying to justify your legitimacy, you can choose to hold confidently to your own uniqueness.
Something to Think about:
 

It is not the job of others to define who you are supposed to be. That is your job.

Being self-preserving is not the same as selfishness.

If others respond poorly to your reasonable choices, that is not your problem to solve.

 
Let’s Talk Question:
Give us an example of a time when others have not respected your boundaries. In that situation, how might you respond reasonably, even when it is probable that the other person will not agree?