The Terri Cole Show

The Terri Cole Show


Latest Episodes

270 Three Steps to Master Conflict with Self-Regulation
December 01, 2020

I am talking about reactivity, self-regulation, and the common ways to know when we are in a reactivity mode. "Self-regulating is our ability to manage disruptive or upsetting emotions and/or impulse." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at...

269 Julie Anne Eason - Author + CEO of Thanet House Books
November 27, 2020

Julie Anne Eason is a speaker, author, and CEO of Thanet House Books. If you are a writer or aspiring writer, this show is for you. "A book carries your message and your life experience out to help people you don’t even know you are helping." -...

268 Three Simple Steps to Harness the Power of Gratitude
November 24, 2020

There is something incredibly uplifting about focusing on what’s going well. Listen in for 3 simple step to harness the power of gratitude. "Gratitude can be this great connector of people." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode of The Terri...

267 Self-Parenting To Heal The Mother Wound
November 17, 2020

"Healing the Mother Wound" is one of my most popular episodes, and so today I'm talking about self-parenting to heal the mother wound. "You don’t need to involve your parents if your mother is alive. This is really between you and you." - Terri...

266 Permission to End ANY Relationship (To reclaim your life!)
November 10, 2020

Why do we stay in problematic relationships? I want you to take a good look at the people you are spending time with and how you feel after spending time with them. I know that ending or modifying relationships can be very difficult, that’s why I...

265 How to Set Conversational Boundaries
November 03, 2020

I talk about how to avoid conversations with inconvenient people, and how you can flip the script and only share what you want to share without coming off as awkward or rude. I also share some strategies for dealing with interrupters, what to do when...

264 Top Ego Defense Mechanisms
October 27, 2020

Words like "denial" and "projecting" are thrown around a lot in casual conversation these days. These words are actually psychological terms that are defense mechanisms, and I think we've begun to throw them around so much that defense mechanism...

263 Seven Ways to Recognize a Codependent Relationship
October 20, 2020

I share 7 ways to recognize if you are in a codependent relationship. Codependency can happen in any relationship, not just romantic ones. "When you are codependent, the line between where you end and the other person starts are completely blurred." -...

262 True Love or Trauma Bond?
October 13, 2020

If you are in a relationship where you are often justifying or minimizing behavior, then that can be the case of trauma bond. "It is very difficult to stay broken up with someone if you are trauma bonded and you continue to have contact." -...

261 Dr. Mariel Buquè - Healing Intergenerational Trauma
October 09, 2020

Dr. Mariel Buquè is an Afro-Dominican Psychologist and educator. She helps heal wounds of intergenerational trauma for BIPOC. "When you do not have interactions with a subset of people enough, you operate from a stereotype perspective." - Dr. Mariel...

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