This question brings up a lot of feelings for the best of us. Maybe the thought of your partner fantasising about someone else feels really icky for you? Or maybe you are like me, and you need to have all sorts of fantasies during sex, but you feel guilty about it, like you’re disconnecting from your partner? 

In this episode we will discuss the role of fantasy during sex, and hopefully disarm some of these negative feelings. Fantasy is a healthy and normal part of the erotic experience, and is not something we need to feel threatened by or guilty about. In fact, if you can learn to embrace your own fantasies, and your partners - this could be what takes your sex life from, “fine” to “OMFG!” 

Mentioned in this episode

Harley Rabbit audio story ‘The Escape’

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