What does outsourcing your worthiness look like? Many people outsource their worthiness when they think they’ll gain acceptance, love, and confidence in themselves only after they reach a certain weight... or make a certain amount of money... or live in a certain kind of house or neighborhood... or have a relationship, period. Now, those things can make you feel good about yourself, but it becomes an issue when they’re your sole source for feeling worthy. My guest today Dante feels like her self-worth depends on being in a relationship. So in this episode, she wants to know how she can stop outsourcing her confidence and worthiness to things outside herself, particularly relationships. 2:46​ - Consequences of being in a relationship to which you’ve outsourced your worthiness 7:44 - Why Dante feels her self-worth depends on being in a relationship 11:46 - How Dante felt like a bit of an outcast as a child 13:34 - The main culprit behind Dante’s inner child wounding and outsourcing 19:13 - Why Dante has a hard time letting go of the energy of one particular person 28:07 - Trouble connecting with your inner child to do the work? Try this instead 30:05 - Why trying to date and heal core wounding at the same time is a waste of time 33:35 - A cool thing to try when you connect with your inner child through journaling 34:42 - How to connect with your ancestors for answers 40:48 - The sentiment Dante shared after the call that I hear often and want to address 43:07 - Highlights and thoughts from the coaching call 47:06 - Re-capping the actions steps that Dante and you can take today I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you! After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps: Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1-on-1 and schedule your session here. If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here. Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!