Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell


Latest Episodes

111: The Way we show up for Sex with Jamie Thompson
February 13, 2018

The way we show up for anything is the way we show up for everything. Which is why showing up for sex is as important as showing up in the boardroom because it reflects character, personality and attitude. Intimate communication expert Jamie Thompson t...

110: Six Conversations Between a Woman & a Man: Masculine Versus Feminine Integrity, Finding The Balance with Arielle Browne
February 09, 2018

Within our bodies are energies called the masculine and the feminine. There are times during the day when a man’s masculine shifts to its feminine, and he is not even aware of it. This happens to women as well but in a different way because where men l...

109: Resolving to Drop your Sh*t
February 06, 2018

Holding onto to anger or grudge is one way of engaging with people. This seems twisted, but this is the truth because holding grudges bring some kind of value for angry people. It’s time to drop your shit because grudge is a form of pain,

108: Six Conversations: The Sweet Spot of Flirting, Attraction & Vulnerability with Arielle Browne
February 02, 2018

Silence can be sexy when used the right way at the right time. Whether it can lead to attraction or not is not the question, rather are you aware that you’ve triggered the sweet spot of the person across you.

107: The Art of Verbal Self-Defense with Kasia Urbaniak
January 30, 2018

Emotions govern judgement, which is why there a need for us to understand and use them as fuel for our passion. But the passion of a man is different from a woman. In a patriarchal society, women don’t have a voice and their passion burn out to the poi...

106: Six Conversations Between a Woman and a Man: Boundaries, Consent & Power Dynamics with Arielle Brown
January 26, 2018

Checking in if a woman is still a “yes” until she is a “no” is a complicated discussion in itself. Knowing and respecting boundaries puts value on a woman, making her feel that she is an amazing person. However,

105: Powerful Lessons Confronting Addiction
January 23, 2018

Sometimes the seeds of addiction are buried so deep we aren't even aware of them. Sometimes it takes a friend or an intervention to shine a light for us. But when we start to face this controlling force, we begin to take back our control and our lives....

104: Your Brave and Beautiful Book with Kelly Notaras
January 16, 2018

Kelly Notaras came recommended. Recently transplanted to Boulder from NYC after a run of successful corporate jobs in the publishing industry, she was the perfect fit to work with us to help my business partner Nicole's first book, Slow Sex.

103: It’s a Life Lesson, not a Life Sentence
January 09, 2018

Being unique and different is a way to live life for some people because it not only means they are standing out from the crowd, but they are being true to the integrity they stand for. When they follow the path of people who are successful,

102: Exploring Our Fear Body
December 30, 2017

For a lot of people, fear is an obstacle that is difficult but not impossible to overcome. When we walk into an unfamiliar street and get to a dark area, we stop moving out of fear. Fear makes us not want to ride a rollercoaster or swim in a backyard p...