The Grind & Be Grateful Podcast with Marie Wold
Episode 058: Action Steps for Getting Unstuck, Overcoming Expectations, and Setting Goals with Marie Wold + Jordan Lee Dooley
Today we are switching things up with a replay episode featuring yours-truly on the She Podcast with Jordan Lee Dooley! YES, the author of National Best Seller, Own Your Everyday (Overcome the Pressure to Prove and Show Up for What You Were Made to Do) Jordan and I are both Enneagram 3’s and have lived the same story in a lot of ways, ‘just in different packaging’ as she puts it! I know you’re going to love how she leads this conversation as we get real and raw about my low points of sacrificing personal priorities for physical results, and prioritizing what I wanted to accomplish over how I wanted to FEEL for way too long.
If you land on my page or a blurb from the podcast, you KNOW that I’m wildly passionate about teaching women HOW to find confidence within themselves, HOW to have a healthy lifestyle, and HOW to reach those physical goals from a place of true self love. But, what I love about switching chairs on episodes like these is that I get to take things ‘down to the studs’ (so to speak!) and remind you guys that I’ve built and placed self confidence on MANY different kinds of foundation over the years— some cracked and some not-so-sturdy, but eventually... some solid and stable! You KNOW I love goals, but when we place confidence in the achievement/approval (of ourselves OR others!) ..THAT’S where things crumble.
As Jordan and I chat about today, confidence is not something you win by crossing a finish line. You can’t WIN confidence. But after some soul searching, time off, and basically an identity crisis, I found I was going about confidence and self love in allllll the wrong ways. We talk about feeling stuck, the limits we put on ourselves, why we attach labels, being multi passionate, feeding our brains with new choices and thoughts, and how you can sit with the ‘stuck’ in an empowering way instead of a wallowing way!
If you’re feeling lost from a lack of direction or misplaced confidence, listen in for tangible tips and takeaways, because YOU are worthy of showing up for.
SHOW NOTES: https://www.grindandbegratefulpodcast.com/episodes/
FOLLOW MARIE: https://www.instagram.com/marieewold/
FOLLOW JORDAN: https://www.instagram.com/jordanleedooley/
LISTEN TO JORDAN'S INTERVIEW ON THE GRIND & BE GRATEFUL PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-049-how-to-make-your-everyday-extraordinary/id1392658806?i=1000438070545