Earlier this week I talked about selah, a pause to reflect. There are several ways you can apply this to sex. Start Slow We guys are usually ready and champing at the bit. Aside from the fact our wives aren’t like this, it can... The post Selah in the Bed

This one may get me some disagreement, as Ive read plenty of folks who have said this, in some way. The other form of this lie is marriage is not about happiness, but rather God made marriage as a way to perfect us, grow...The post FF: Marriage Lie: G

When I was an irrigator in Texas, the official recommendation for watering the most common lawn grass was to water once a week. On paper, this could work, but 95% of the yards in Austin would have had a lot of dead grass on... The post Nurturing Your Wife

Lets talk some more about using selah, a pause to reflect, in your marriage. How often do you and your wife take time, together, to pause and reflect on the beauty all around you? It could be the stars or the clouds. A lake...The post Selah in Marriage:

The word selah appears 74 times in the Old Testament, mostly in the book of Psalms. It is used to indicate a pause, with the intention of giving the reader or hearer a chance to reflect on what has been said. In a go,... The post The Power of Pause: Using

I suggested this last week on The XY Code. I didnt get the feedback I would have liked, but one woman said Sounds doable and no one screamed, so there is that. The short version is your wife brings you to orgasm on odd...The post An Odd Solution to Hi

This is another lie no one says aloud, but we see it in what people do and dont do. The church is supposed to guide and protect couples. We, the church, should be ready to sacrifice for marriages, especially new marriages and marriages in...The post FF:

Well, who am I? (Who am I? Who, who, who, who?) I really want to know (Who am I? Who, who, who, who?) Tell me who am I? (Who am I? Who, who, who, who?) Because I really want to know (Who am I?...The post How God Made You: A Key to Personal & Marriage Gro

One of the things we took to the family reunion forth of July event on Saturday was crab salad. (Yum!) I didnt get it done Friday night, so I was going to have to do it Saturday. We were unsure what time we were...The post Avoid Friction in Marriage by

You and your wife share a home. That means what either of you does impacts the other. And some of that may not be on your radar. For example: You do something that creates a smell she dislikes. You make noise at a bad... The post Navigating Shared Spaces