Testosterone is great. It makes us feel strong. It pushes us to embrace adventure and challenge. And it fuels a sex drive that results in all kinds of fun and builds intimacy with our wives. But testo

Yes, women are “more emotional” than men. Some studies suggest men feel things just as strongly or even more strongly than women, but are better at keeping their emotions suppressed. But that’s anothe

When Lori and I need to deal with a business or the government by phone, I do the calls. Taxes, health care, insurance, or over-billing is my job because I’ve made it my job. My wife could do it, but

I have been accused at times of trying to turn men into wimps who do too much for their wives and let their wives walk all over them. I can certainly see how individual posts could be construed that w

Sex is a very individual thing, and what we want, enjoy, dislike, and hate is very much a result of who we are and what has gone before. Of course, we don’t see this, because we accept the whole packa

The last few days I’ve written about how your past, your personality, and your preferences colour what your wife says and does. Of course, your wife filters what you say and do the same way. And somet

How much of what you did this month is because of something that happened to you in the first twenty years of your life? Unless you’re very unusual, much to most of what you did was influenced by your

This is another post on how we filter what our wive say and do. The best current science says there’s a strong genetic component to our personality. This is then shaped somewhat by our culture. For ex

We all have preferences. You like chocolate ice cream, she likes vanilla, and I’m all about moose tracks. I like chess, you prefer checkers. She wants to watch a rom-com, you want to watch SciFi. She

When your wife says or does something, you process that through a number of filters. An incomplete list of those filters is your preferences, your personality, and your past. Which one of those is the