Most of my posts this week have asked you to reconsider your lifestyle. Today I want to ask you to do that with sex in mind. The reality is many of us have a lifestyle that is not compatible with the

Marriage is like this: You get married and when you open the box that contains your new marriage you find a thousand pieces and a note that says “Some assembly required”. Even worse, the instructions

Another lifestyle issue is how we treat people and things. It’s correct to say we should use things and love people, but it’s also simplistic and therefore not sufficient. How much do people matter to

This is the second of four posts about reconsidering our lifestyle and choices. Today, time use and margin. How we use our time is one of the most important decisions we make. When we get it right, li

When my son was single, he had an Impreza WRX S201 STi – a Subaru sports car. It was a fun ride and it could deal with the snow and dirt roads around here. But it certainly was not a family car. They

Many women enjoy a picnic with their guy. This is especially true if he does all the preparation. It’s quality time, acts of service, and romance all rolled into one. You don’t have to drive out to th

Many men’s sexual reality is asking their wife for sex three, five, or ten times to have it once. When I talk about her having responsive desire they hear that as saying her refusal is just how she is

This post and the one I did on The XY Code yesterday are very similar, with a few changes based on the primary gender of the audience. I’ve shared about this issue a number of times on both blogs over

I have recently seen several posts and tweets that say something to the effect of: “I’m only responsible for what I say. Not for what you understand.” I have mixed feelings about this because it is bo

For several years we were stuck with horrible Internet. It was overpriced, painfully slow, capped, and often went down or got so slow it might as well have been down. Then last December we joined the