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The Best Gift He Ever Gave Me
We had a wife tell us her husband’s recent gift was the best he’d ever given her. When her father died a few years ago, she and her three siblings divided things up as you do. One of the things she mo
Appreciate the Effort and the Cost
It’s human nature to judge things by how they impact us. If your wife does something little for you, that gets less application than if she does something big for you. But what if how you judge big an
Don’t Disconnect When You’re Busy
The last week I’ve been putting together an Ubuntu box to replace my dying Windows 10 computer. It’s been well over a decade since I did any real Linux coding and while Ubuntu has become far easier fo
You & Your Wife Need Sexual Growth Mindsets
New Zealand psychologist Jessica Maxwell has coined a couple of new terms to describe what we believe about our sexual relationship. If you have a sexual growth mindset, you think that sexual satisfac
Friday Flashback: If It Ain’t Broke …
So you wake up, turn on your computer, and it won’t make coffee. Naturally, you open it up and try to fix it, right? Maybe the caffeine board has gone bad? Or it could be a software problem, so you tr
Parenting Scripts, the Good, the Bad, And the Ugly
Another place we fall back on scripts because we have no clue is parenting. And since we’re not like other parents, our kids aren’t like we were, and times have changed, that can cause problems. I’m n
Is Your Marriage Running On An Old Script?
Yesterday I talked about how scripts can be good, but can also be bad. Today I want to look at the scripts in your marriage. It makes sense that we have a lot of second-hand marriage scripts. Marriage
Are You Working From An Old Script?
Last Friday in my XY Code post entitled What Mindful Sex Is and Why You Want It, I suggested couples dump the scripts they use when they have sex. I’ll talk about that here on Saturday, but the issue
The Five Minute Rule
If your wife asks you to do something for her than can be done in five minutes or less, stop what you are doing right away or at a convenient break in a few minutes, and do it for her. Sure, you could
Where Is Shame Influencing You?
“Shame tries to shackle us to who we were to keep us from becoming who we are.” ~ Live in Grace, Walk in Love: A 365-Day Journey by Bob Goff I talk a lot here about how our past hurts our lives and m