The Generous Husband Daily Rant

The Generous Husband Daily Rant


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The Best Gift He Ever Gave Me
May 24, 2022

We had a wife tell us her husband’s recent gift was the best he’d ever given her. When her father died a few years ago, she and her three siblings divided things up as you do. One of the things she mo

Appreciate the Effort and the Cost
May 23, 2022

It’s human nature to judge things by how they impact us. If your wife does something little for you, that gets less application than if she does something big for you. But what if how you judge big an

Don’t Disconnect When You’re Busy
May 22, 2022

The last week I’ve been putting together an Ubuntu box to replace my dying Windows 10 computer. It’s been well over a decade since I did any real Linux coding and while Ubuntu has become far easier fo

You & Your Wife Need Sexual Growth Mindsets
May 21, 2022

New Zealand psychologist Jessica Maxwell has coined a couple of new terms to describe what we believe about our sexual relationship. If you have a sexual growth mindset, you think that sexual satisfac

Friday Flashback: If It Ain’t Broke …
May 20, 2022

So you wake up, turn on your computer, and it won’t make coffee. Naturally, you open it up and try to fix it, right? Maybe the caffeine board has gone bad? Or it could be a software problem, so you tr

Parenting Scripts, the Good, the Bad, And the Ugly
May 19, 2022

Another place we fall back on scripts because we have no clue is parenting. And since we’re not like other parents, our kids aren’t like we were, and times have changed, that can cause problems. I’m n

Is Your Marriage Running On An Old Script?
May 18, 2022

Yesterday I talked about how scripts can be good, but can also be bad. Today I want to look at the scripts in your marriage. It makes sense that we have a lot of second-hand marriage scripts. Marriage

Are You Working From An Old Script?
May 17, 2022

Last Friday in my XY Code post entitled What Mindful Sex Is and Why You Want It, I suggested couples dump the scripts they use when they have sex. I’ll talk about that here on Saturday, but the issue

The Five Minute Rule
May 16, 2022

If your wife asks you to do something for her than can be done in five minutes or less, stop what you are doing right away or at a convenient break in a few minutes, and do it for her. Sure, you could

Where Is Shame Influencing You?
May 15, 2022

“Shame tries to shackle us to who we were to keep us from becoming who we are.” ~ Live in Grace, Walk in Love: A 365-Day Journey by Bob Goff  I talk a lot here about how our past hurts our lives and m