Last month when I was doing research for an XY Code post about mindful sex, I saw a lot of warnings about “orgasm focus” and how it was a problem. This was mostly shared by women, and was often follow

Ever misplace something and then asked your wife if she has seen it, knows where it is, or even “where did you put my _____?” Or, maybe she does it to you. Or you both do it to each other. Odds are th

You must create more margin so you have room for what’s important, not merely urgent. ~ Michael Hyatt I assume Micheal has read Charles Hummel’s Tyranny of the Urgent, originally released as a booklet

The other day when I met my pastor for coffee, he was working on something on Canva when I arrived. It was not doing what he wanted and he couldn’t figure out why. I mentioned my wife has become a Can

Humans have a bad habit of labelling each other. We like to put people in boxes so we know who they are, what we can expect from them, and how we should treat them. Or perhaps how we can get away with

So I spent much of Saturday in the Emergency room. My dear wife has a kidney stone and she had a couple of hours of extreme pain before she got diagnosed and put on pain medication. (The medical staff

I often point out that most studies of “the orgasm gap” are done on college students. This makes them virtually useless to a married person, and especially a married person thirty or older. However, t

Paula Hall, a UK Sexologist, says sex follows the 2-6-2 rule. For every ten times you have sex, two will be great, six will be okay, and two will be boring. I have three thoughts on this. First: I thi

So we have a new kitten – who is currently sleeping on my leg. I’m not a cat person. I don’t hate them and I will enjoy the little beastie, but on my own, I would never own a cat. But I care about...

Most of us are doing way too much and not getting enough sleep. That makes it tempting to see “I’m too busy” or “I’m too tired” as a reason for not doing something we really don’t want to do. Thing is