Last Saturday, I talked about giving your wife a hand job. Today, I want to upgrade you to the battery assisted hand job. The goal here is to hold a small vibrator so its on her clitoris. If you look at the image, the...The post Battery Assisted Hand Jo

You wont hear many folks who say sex is not important in marriage, but plenty act as if its not important. Maybe the difference between words and actions suggests most of them know sex is more important than their actions say it is. A...The post FF: Ma

On Tuesday, I talked about little things we do for our wives that dont really feel like sacrifice. Today I want to talk about seasons of significant sacrifice. There are times when circumstances mean one spouse is limited. It could be late pregnancy, ear

Last week on Doing Marriage Well, Lori talked about sacrificing for our spouse. Its absolutely something all of us should be doing in large and small ways. But I wonder if the word sacrifice is the best way to talk about this. Some of...The post When Sa

Plan a day trip with your wife. You could stay local and bum around a flea market or spend time in a museum. Or drive a few hours away. The point is to get away together. Share a couple of meals, make new memories,...The post Rekindle Romance by Plannin

When you hear the words hand job you probably think of that thing you begrudgingly accept when you really need sex and her hand is all your wife is willing to give you. But women can also receive hand jobs, and your wife may...The post The Art of the H

A quick list of porn related lies: Porn is no big deal. Porn changes how a man thinks and feels about sex, which is a big deal. Because porn tends to be unrealistic and often shows things no woman could enjoy, this reprogramming is... The post FF: Marriag

Over on Doing Marriage Well this week, my wife is talking about sacrificing for our spouse. Sacrifice comes in two flavours: not doing something you want to do, and doing something you dont want to do. My recent posts about selfishness come into play...

Your job has a huge impact on your life. It also has a significant impact on your marriage, your wife, and your kids. I fear many men fail to properly consider these things. Work is how we provide for our family, and that means... The post How Your Job Im

Many wives are hungry for more non-sexual touch. Massage is a great way to provide that. Start with her feet, or her hands if her feet are ticklish. Once she knows you dont expect sex as payment, you can move on to other areas....The post The Power of N