Inner Work with Steli Efti

Inner Work with Steli Efti


Latest Episodes

102: Decoding Dreams: Seeing Hidden Truths With Eyes Closed
September 27, 2021

Ever since reading Carl Jung, I got interested in dream interpretation, but most of the time I don't feel like interpreting my dreams. A dream I recently had though made me think that there was a mess

101: The Art of Accepting Help (When You Think You Don’t Need It)
September 20, 2021

Oftentimes the people who think they need help the least are the ones that need it the most. I've always been a giver. I always loved to help others. But asking for, and receiving help, that was somet

100: The Courage to Be a Degenerate
September 12, 2021

After 100 episodes of intimate navel-gazing and serious inner work, it's time so start sharing some of the silly goofing around we do in between. Expect nothing meaningful from this episode. We're tal

099: The Neverending Story: How We Narrate Our Every Moment
September 10, 2021

I started paying more attention to the soundtrack of my live—that inner narator that constantly makes up stories about what it is I do. And I started experimenting with it: What if I change the narrat

098: The Potato Chip Friendship
September 04, 2021

Recently while on vacation in Greece I was looking for some more lighthearted literature and picked up Charles Bukowski's Ham on Rye. Well, let's say it wasn't exactly the feelgood read I sought, but

097: What My Insecure Loser Friend Taught Me About Self-Esteem
August 27, 2021

First of all: My friend is not an insecure loser. He's an amazing person that I enjoy to spend time with and learn from. But he sometimes thinks that others think of him as a loser. And let's be hones

096: Kissing My Mother’s Feet
August 20, 2021

I was recently on vacation with my family and shared a very special moment with my mother: For the first time in decades, I felt like the child of my mother—and her being my parent. I've stepped into

095: What I Learned From My Grandfather
August 15, 2021

It was 2007, I had just moved to the US, when I received a call from my brother: My grandfather had died. I was his namesake, and his favorite grandchild. People always told me how much I came after h

094: Fatherhood Odyssey - What My Son’s Neediness Taught Me About Myself
August 15, 2021

My youngest son has a seemingly insatiable desire for attention from his mom. Sometimes it escalates into awkward neediness, and it hurt me seeing my son feel this way. I tried to step in and "save" h

093: Crime and Punishment by Dostoyevsky
August 11, 2021

In this episode I share my thoughts after reading Dostoyevsky's Crime And Punishment. A much more effortful, and less rewarding read than I had hoped, but I do love how deep it goes into the central t