At age 23 ARDEN LEIGH became a professional dominatrix in NYC. She is the founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum for Women and the author of The New Rules of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg For More (Sourcebooks, 2011). She currently works as a coach for women on developing a proactive approach to achieving their romantic goals, or put simply, a seduction coach.

As of this interview Arden is in the process of writing a memoir about her 4 years spent as a pro-domme and 24/7 lifestyle submissive (which we talk about in this episode!).

In This Conversation We Discuss:

The kind of bliss that can come from pleasing and serving another person.
How living out your own stories and fantasies inspires and enables others to do the same.
Dreaming of a BDSM lifestyle from a young age: I Dream of Jeannie and Arabian Nights’ slave girls.

Top 3 Quotes

“At the end of the day are you bringing in the right kind of person who wants to live your fantasy with you?”
“Shut up and eat your breakfast while I go down on you”
“Anything that turns you on is a gift”

Links

Blog Post - The Sad Case of the Emotionally Unavailable Woman
twitter.com/ardensirens

 

Want to help bring the conversation around BDSM to more people? If you or anyone you know would like to help publish Arden’s future book on her 4 years as a Professional Dominatrix, please contact us and we will connect you to Arden!