Twenty years ago, I wrote about biotechnology at Wired, and for several of my years there, I sat directly across from an incredible woman named Elisa Batista, who I’m so excited to tell you is my guest on today's episode.This episode is a kind of reunion between old friends as well as an exclusive interview where Elisa, who is currently an activist and writer, shares for the first time details about her life with and divorce from a public figure.  Elisa was married for nearly 20 years to Markos Moulitsas, who was and still is a bit of a celebrity, especially if you’re into politics. He founded a progressive blog network called Daily Kos, and I remember Elisa and Markos as this young power couple, all of us at Wired gatherings and Markos surprising everyone with his incredible piano playing. I remember seeing him on television, talking about progressive politics and ideas, and my husband and I were very proud to call them friends.Behind the scenes, a very traditional domestic life was unfolding. As you’ll hear in this exclusive interview, the couple’s politics may have been progressive, but Elisa still changed all the diapers and cooked all the meals. The gender roles reflected those of both of their Latino families’ for generations—except for the fact that Elisa was also establishing her own career while raising their two children.And then, after 21 years together, they split up, and in this episode, Elisa tells the story of what happened for the first time.Now that she’s in her 40s and single, she’s ready to focus on herself. As a matter of fact, she recently wrote a book about activism. You’ll also hear about Elisa’s important work on DACA during the Obama administration, her current work for Ultraviolet, how thinking  Breonna Taylor's mother keeps her up at night, and lots more. Relevant Links:UltravioletMoms RisingElisa on TwitterElisa on InstagramDaily KosSB NationE.J. Dionne Jr. of the Washington PostEzra Klein, co-founder of VoxJennifer WeinerRonnie Citron-Fink