Season 3 Episode 3 This week, we talk about expectations, and the scene in general. Expectations are a difficult thing to both have and for venue and other organizers to meet if they are set too high. Not saying you shouldn’t have high expectations,

Season 3 Episode 2 This time, we discuss negotiations, we speak with Lee Harrington about his latest book, and we answer your questions Find Lee’s book here: Your questions: My significant other and I have been experimenting with light BDSM (Dom/sub,

This week, I wanted to talk about misconceptions in the scene. When we first start off, there are a variety of things we think we are going to see. In the end, it just isn’t so. Also, welcome to Season 3. Sorry it took so long.

Well.. it is finally here! The last episode of 2015. This week I just don’t have time to get to the questions, but… I do cover vanilla perceptions of our kinky world. This will be my last episode of 2015. I shall return in early 2016 with more intervie...

Season 2 Episode 14 This week, I discuss a the differences between play relationships and relationships, I read a listener comment from the last show, and I answer the questions below: I’m brand new to the community and the lifestyle.

Season 2 Episode 13 This week we have several topics to tackle. The biggest however is what constitutes normal in the kink scene. We reference a post on Fetlife, however, for privacy, we won’t be linking directly to it (plus it’s been taken down).

Season 2 Episode 12 Topic for this week: Toxic people in the community. We talk about how to make sure that your kink life isn’t filled with drama. Questions this week: I am a single guy, I feel really odd when I attend play parties.

Season 2 Episode 11   This week we discuss the NCSF Consent violation survey. [pdf-embedder url=”http://www.kinkinthechain.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Consent-Violations-Survey-analysis.pdf”]   Then we answer your questions: My girlfriend wants to h...

Season 2 Episode 10 This episode features an interview with a Detroit munch organizer and community leader, I talk about bridging gaps between groups and we answer questions about collars, strange fetishes and negotiations. -

Season 2 Episode 9 This week, I give a shout out to volunteers and event organizers everywhere   I also take your calls like these: I just got involved with a new partner, but he isn’t into kink. I’ve been doing kink forever and would like to share in ...