What is a “real man” and how do I raise one?

In today’s episode, my guest and I continue our discussion about how to raise our boys to become “real men”…  men who have integrity, a strong work ethic, compassion for others, and a love for Jesus!

Welcome to Episode 24 of Redeeming the Chaos with Laurie Christine.

We have a very special guest on our show today.  Kathleen Henderson is the natural living mentor behind the Roots & Boots blog and youtube channel, and the creator of Unprocessed Pantry and the Real Food Family Meal Plan.  She’s on a mission to help families see the joy in real food, while finding natural remedies and creating a nontoxic home.  Kathleen lives with her husband and three boys on a family farm in northern Virginia.  As a homeschooling boy-mom, Kathleen is passionate about raising capable kids who grow up to be real men!  

In the last episode of Redeeming the Chaos, Kathleen and I talked about how to maintain sanity as a mom of boys.  We also began a discussion about the qualities of a real man.

WHAT IS A REAL MAN?

* A real man has integrity. He does the right thing. He has self control and is able to master his emotions.* A real man has unwavering faith and love for the Lord.* A real man always does his best and has a strong work ethic.* A real man treats others with respect and dignity.

If you missed that episode, be sure to go back and listen to Episode 23. 

In today’s episode, Kathleen and I dive deeper into the topic of what a real man looks like and some practical things you can do to help your boys become real men. You can listen to our conversation here:

HOW DO I RAISE A REAL MAN? 

* Tell your son that he will be a man some day.

* Give your boys a vision for the future.

2. Expect him to begin acting like a man.

* Expect maturity from your children* “That behavior is unbecoming of a man.” * “Is this the kind of man you want to be?” * Give your boys a vision of growth and character.* “You have to decide what kind of person you want to become.”* “This is an opportunity to practice being strong and do the right thing.” 

* Give your boys responsibilities

* Teach them how to do work that contributes to the responsibilities of the family.* Give your kids a sense of purpose  with actual responsibilities.* Develop habits that will benefit them into adulthood.

* Incorporate intentional milestones.

* Ceremonies, rituals, rites of passage* 6 – campout with Dad* 10 – laying groundwork for puberty* 12 – “now you’re a man”* 16, 18, 21, marriage

5. Lay a foundation of Biblical truth

* Memorizing scripture as a family* Daily Bible reading

What role can moms play in raising real men?

* Supporting your husband in his role as a leader in your family....