The Best Thing About Cockteasing Cockteasing – All About The Denial?? I am a Cockteasing Bitch, and  I love teasing you OVER and OVER and OVER again likely until you beg for mercy. Oh and I know you will indeed beg for an orgasm, but honestly,

If you’ve got a small penis, then you know exactly what I’m talking about, don’t you? I recently got asked, “What is SPH?” in an email. The gentleman had never heard of it!  Actually, he had seen the term “SPH” and been curious. Well,

No Call Sessions I know you would like to play often, and you love to be dominated! Though I certainly do distance domination by phone, things happen and you just can NOT call. Life, privacy, or lack thereof! Or maybe it is ME! I love to vacation,

Discussing subspace Subspace and feel like walking a tightrope. You want to fall into that space so much, but it is scary! Think of Ms. Delia as your guide and safety net. All the instruments of BDSM, be it hardcore or sensual are designed to bring abo...

The CBT Chair All of my playthings know about the room I have in my house. The one with my “special” furniture. And one of my favorite pieces is my CBT chair. It almost looks like a Medieval throne. Massive, with a really high back.

Predicament Bondage What is Predicament bondage? Predicament bondage is the use of bondage and positions which can cause pleasure or punishment over time as the scene progresses.  When used as a punishment,

Why do men love being flogged and spanked? Ms. Delia likes to think of it as comfort food! Floggers as comfort? Spanking as comfort? Oh yes! Comfort food can bring you back to an earlier time when certain feelings and emotions were imprinted. Now,

Picking out the right lube for your masturbation session is important, and necessary. Dry hands without lube can cause irritation! Spit dries way too quickly and has bacteria in it, and we do not want that! Sex toys really do require lube. Oh,

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive. A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress....

Roles of a submissive There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.