“When you need to be loved, you take love wherever you can find it. When you are desperate to be loved, feel love, know love, you seek out what you think love should look like. When you find love, or what you think love is, you will lie, kill, and steal to keep it. But learning about real love comes from within. It cannot be given. It cannot be taken away. It grows from your ability to re-create within yourself, the essence of loving experiences you have had in your life.” ― Iyanla VanzantPatrick B joins us to talk about his journey from seeking intimacy in secret bars down back alleys to losing friends in the AIDS crisis to getting caught up in a crystal meth addiction.  He found recovery, and by doing his work, he found himself.  If you would like to leave a comment on a particular episode or a suggestion, please leave us a voicemail at (214) 997-4985. Alcoholics Anonymous - www.aa.orgNarcotics Anonymous - www.na.orgNone of the groups are affiliated or associated with Disinfecting Sunlight and are provided solely as resources for help.  I can be reached directly at paul@disinfectingsunlight.com