The Space Between

The Space Between


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Spark a shift in perspective with this question
December 19, 2019

A good one for your favorite questions list.

How to disagree better
November 19, 2019

Have better disagreements in your personal and professional relationships

Choosing the right conflict resolution tools
October 02, 2019

We use tools to do something more effectively and efficiently. But just like physical tools, ill-chosen conflict resolution tools will not yield the results we need. Here are three questions to help choose and use the right conflict resolution tools fo...

Choosing the right conflict resolution tools
October 02, 2019

3 questions for choosing the right tool at the right…

Every conflict contains a bid to be seen
September 03, 2019

One reason disagreements turn into conflict and ongoing tension is our failure to see — or acknowledge that we see — the other person in the way they most deeply wish to be seen in the world. One way to disagree better is to respond to their bid to be ...

Every conflict contains a bid to be seen
September 03, 2019

I matter.

How to influence the way people act during conflict
July 23, 2019

If you believe someone is aggressive, could they behave more aggressively with you than with others? If someone believes you are a hostile person, are you likely to act more hostile when you interact with them?

How to influence the way people act during conflict
July 23, 2019

Beliefs can and do create social reality.

A way to turn anger into curiosity
June 05, 2019

Only people we love and care deeply about can make us so angry we want to blow a gasket, says famed Star Trek actor George Takei. When someone or something we care deeply about sparks big anger, here’s a way to turn anger into curiosity and use it posi...

A way to turn anger into curiosity
June 04, 2019

We'll call this the George Takei method.