You don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone. Have you noticed people these days don’t have hobbies like they used to? You might not. You’d have to be old enough to compare today (the 2020s) with the 1970s-90s or so. Over those decades, our society has ex

After a debate about artificial Christmas trees, we discuss the dark consequences of Too Many People following the conventional wisdom of focusing on what they CAN change, how we need all kinds of people, including the fighters, and, we are surprised by a

This is a ‘talk story’ episode. ‘Talk story’ is the Hawaiian pidgin English phrase for “shooting the breeze.” You’ll hear us Hawaii born & raised folks freaking out about fall foliage (which you can never see in Hawaii), and just hanging out talking about

Is everyone doing their best? What do you think? In this episode, we dissect phrases like Everyone is doing their best and When you know better, you do better. We talk about how there are different kinds of knowing. You may know how certain foods ar

One annoying thing about being human is wanting to do something, and at the very same time, NOT wanting to do that exact same thing. On this episode, we mash and hash on the weirdness and frustration of this phenomenon, and discus some unconventional ways

Trauma, it's a spectrum.This episode covers some everyday anecdotes and practices weve found helpful. Also, Toast shares the story of a traumatic experience from her young adulthood.It involved being raised evangelical Christian (when youre gay) and b

Do you have a love/hate relationship with your to-do list, too? In this episode, we talk about why that is, and ways we deal with it, including some practical changes weve made recently to help us just enjoy life more.The discussion moves past producti