It has definitely been a year. We went into 2021 cautious AF, and we were rewarded because it definitely was a sh*tshow. But! Some moments were hilarious, in that "let's laugh at others' pain" schadenfreude kind of way, some moments we

How do you understand the "good girl vs. bad girl" dichotomy? Was becoming "bad" a conscious effort for you or did it just happen? What influenced you to change your understanding of who you needed to be based on others' expecta

What money issues have you experienced in a relationship? What are your thoughts on joint accounts? How does money affect the dynamics of your relationships? Do you address money at the beginning of a romantic relationship? We're jumping right into t

Are selfishness and selflessness even a dichotomy? Do they actually stand as opposites? How connected are those concepts to the religious concepts that permeated our childhood? How do the concepts of self-care, self-love, and boundaries relate to the vi

How do you view the connection between homophobia and misogyny? Do you think sometimes parents use their kids or motherly/fatherly connection to their children to rationalize their homophobia and transphobia? Do you entertain the thought that your childre

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What is hope? What do you have hope for? Should we have hope? Why? What are the downsides of having hope? How do you recharge your hope reserves? This episode might be a little darker than we anticipated, but we're nothing if not real, and that does

What is your relationship to your anger? How does the way we're taught to deal with our emotions affect our relationship with anger? Why do we avoid being angry? How has anger been useful to you? What do we consider valid anger? We're back from

Are "alpha males" a thing? Who is the audience for all the alpha male/high-value men content? What is dangerous about the popularization of all this alpha male content? What are the alternatives for men who want to expand their view of themselve

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